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The Grow-Ups
(Fear that adults are too big, too busy, and don’t understand)
Personality:
Tall, blurred, hurried, and seemingly important but hard to understand.
How it Behaves:
• Looms in doorways, talks over children
• Says: “You’ll understand when you’re older”
• Makes problems feel small or silly
What it Feeds On:
Feeling unheard and rushed
What Weakens It:
A grown-up who listens at eye level, attention without interruption
Secret Truth:
They were once small too and forget how heavy feelings feel.
How it Changes:
Shrinks and softens when truly listened to, sometimes remembering how to play.

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